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Nelson talk about child custody. \n\nWhile child custody is normally a battle between two parents, what about grandparents or other third parties? \n\nPlus, do fathers in PA get a fair shake when it comes to custody orders?\n\nTune in for a deep dive into this topic, recorded by and shared with permission from the Bar Association of Lehigh County. \n\nTo learn more about how Gross McGinley can help you with your child custody needs, please call us at 610.820.5450 or visit https:\/\/www.grossmcginley.com\/services\/family-law\/custody\/.","thumbnailUrl":["https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/OTovN1V0RNA\/default.jpg","https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/OTovN1V0RNA\/mqdefault.jpg","https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/OTovN1V0RNA\/hqdefault.jpg","https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/OTovN1V0RNA\/sddefault.jpg"],"uploadDate":"2021-06-21T15:22:10+00:00","duration":"PT11M59S","embedUrl":"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OTovN1V0RNA","publisher":{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCOYR3tHLYW5VxFjUoxeMQzA#Organization","url":"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCOYR3tHLYW5VxFjUoxeMQzA","name":"Gross McGinley","description":"Gross McGinley, LLP offers a powerhouse legal team serving individuals & businesses in the Greater Lehigh Valley & Monroe County. 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Given this definition we may ask, \u201cwhat is a so-called traditional family?\u201d The general public views a traditional family as one which has two (2) parents of opposite gender who are legally married to one another and have one (1) or more children together either biologically or by way of adoption.The modern family, in contrast to the traditional family is much more diverse. The modern family may include single parent homes, same gender parents, blended families, and parents who live together and raise children together but are not married. In addition to different family structures, the individuals comprising those families are also increasingly more diverse. A parent or a child may identify as transgender or non-binary.All of the aforesaid iterations of a modern family have forced our Court systems and Custody Orders to make modifications and address matters that were not contemplated in the past.First and foremost, it is important to understand the terms the Court uses when constructing a Custody Order. \u00a0A Custody Order in Pennsylvania addresses both legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody can be easily described as decision-making power for major concerns regarding the subject child or children. Legal custody is typically understood to include medical decisions, educational decisions, and religious decisions. In the majority of Custody Orders, the parties will share legal custody. Sharing legal custody means that the parties must work together to make these major decisions together. In some cases however, one party will have sole legal custody which allows that party to make unilateral decisions as it relates to legal custody matters. Even in those instances, the party with sole legal custody is typically directed by the Court to keep the other party informed.Physical custody addresses where the child physically resides and on what schedule. When the child resides with one parent for more overnights, that parent is said to have primary physical custody. The other parent who has less time, whether that time is three (3) days per week or one (1) hour per week, has partial physical custody. A Custody Order will provide for both the legal and physical custody for the child or children in question. So what does that look like for a non-traditional family?The most basic of the non-traditional family situations to address is unmarried parents who reside together. The Court cannot address a custody claim for an intact family. Despite no legal marriage, two parties who have a child together and reside together is an intact family for purposes of Custody Court. Once those parents cease to reside together, the Court then has jurisdiction to hear the custody matter and will construct a Custody Order based on either the agreement of the parties or pursuant to the 16 custody factors found at 23 Pa. C.S. \u00a75328.While there are some exceptions allowing third parties to file for custody of a child (grandparents or in loco parentis standing), you must be a legal parent to file for custody of your child.\u00a0 This had historically been an obstacle for same gender couples who could not both be legal parents to a child despite their intention to do so. In 2002, the Pennsylvania Supreme Court in In Re Adoption of R.B.F held that a same-sex domestic partner could adopt the children of his partner 569 Pa. 269 (Pa. 2002). Prior to this case, only a legal spouse was permitted to adopt. Subsequently, when the United States Supreme Court decided Obergefell v. Hodges, same gender marriage was recognized in every state. 576 U.S. 644 (2015.) \u00a0Given the above rulings, today when a same gender couple composed of two legal parents files a custody complaint, the Court proceeds in the same manner as they would for any other married or unmarried couple who find themselves seeking a Custody Order for their child or children.Transgender youth has raised some new issues for the Court to address. As discussed supra, legal custody comprises, inter alia, decision-making surrounding medical decisions. When parents share legal custody, they must make these decisions together, but what happens when parents cannot make these major decisions together? They must involve the Court.As most family law practitioners will tell you, the Court does not want to be in a position wherein it must make major parenting decisions for a child in contravention to a parent\u2019s wishes. The latest iteration of this has been how to handle when parents differ on what treatment, or lack thereof, to provide a transgender child. Whether the discussion is surrounding physical health or emotional health, these are very personal and very important to decisions to be made by parents.If two separated parents have a successful co-parenting relationship, these matters need not involve the Court. Unfortunately, more often than not, the separated parents do not have a positive relationship with one another and every small disagreement is taken to the Court to rule upon. This is exceedingly more difficult when the disagreements are not small matters, but ones of the utmost importance.When a transgender youth requests certain treatment, for example hormone treatment or surgery, that treatment requires the consent of the parents. For parents subject to a Custody Order granting shared legal custody, this is a medical decision the parents must make together. If parents cannot come to some accord regarding medical treatment, there are only two (2) options. The first option is to Petition the Court for a modification of the current Custody Order seeking sole legal custody. A parent with sole legal custody may then make this decision unilaterally. That said, obtaining sole legal custody is no small feat.The other option is to bring the custody case to trial before a Judge, with both parents arguing they have the child\u2019s best interest at heart and that the child\u2019s welfare is at stake. This is quite new territory for the Court, and only time will tell how case law develops on these issues.So as we revisit the question, what is a non-traditional family, let\u2019s end with this thought: What does a non-traditional really look like in modern society? Rightly, it looks like us all. The Court has, in varying degrees and at varying speeds, risen to the occasion and provided a means for every family to have their day in Court, \u201ctraditional\u201d or \u201cnon-traditional.\u201dReprinted with permission from the July 13, 2021 edition of The Legal Intelligencer \u00a9 2021 ALM Media Properties, LLC. All rights reserved. Further duplication without permission is prohibited. ALMReprints.com \u2013 877-257-3382 \u2013 reprints@alm.com.Attorney\u00a0Kellie Rahl-Heffner\u00a0is a family law attorney, providing legal guidance in the areas of divorce, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, child custody, alimony, and more.\u00a0"},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Resources","item":"https:\/\/www.grossmcginley.com\/resources\/#breadcrumbitem"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Blog","item":"https:\/\/www.grossmcginley.com\/resources\/\/blog\/#breadcrumbitem"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":3,"name":"Non-Traditional Custody Orders for the Non-Traditional Family","item":"https:\/\/www.grossmcginley.com\/resources\/blog\/non-traditional-custody-orders-for-the-non-traditional-family\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]